מדרש על שיר השירים 1:8

(Exodus 19:1) "On the third month of the exodus of the children of Israel from the land of Egypt": We are hereby apprised that we number the months from the exodus from Egypt. This tells me only of months. Whence do I derive (the same for) years? From (Numbers 1:1) "in the second year of their exodus from Egypt." This tells me only of that period (i.e., the general period of the exodus.) Whence do I derive the same for succeeding periods? From (Ibid. 33:38) "in the fortieth year of the exodus of the children of Israel from the land of Egypt in the fifth month" (Av). All this, until they entered Eretz Yisrael. Whence do I derive the same for (the period) after they entered Eretz Yisrael? From (I Kings 6:1) "In the four hundred and eightieth year of the exodus of the children of Israel from the land of Egypt." All this, until the Temple was built. Once the Temple was built, they began to count from (the time of) its building, viz. (II Chronicles 8:1) "And it was, at the end of forty years of Solomon's building of the Temple of the L rd, etc." If they did not merit numbering from its building they numbered from its destruction, viz. (Ezekiel 40:1) "in the fourteenth year after the city was smitten." If they did not merit numbering for themselves, they numbered for others, viz. (Daniel 2:1) "And in the second year of the reign of Nevuchadnezzar, etc.", and (Chaggai 1:15) "In the second year of the reign of King Darius." And it is written (Song of Songs 1:8) "If you do not know, you fairest among the women, etc." and (Devarim 28:47-48) "Because you would not serve the L rd your G d … you will serve your foes, etc."

There was an incident involving Miriam daughter of Nakdimon for whom the Sages alloted five hundred gold dinars for a basket of perfume each day. She nonetheless stood and cursed them and said to them: ‘Allot that to your daughters!’¹⁷⁸She viewed this huge sum as insufficient. Rabbi Aḥa said: ‘We, too, answered amen after her.’¹⁷⁹From the perspective of the Sages it was a huge sum. Rabbi Elazar said: I will see the consolation if I did not see her gathering barley under the hooves of horses in Akko. I read in her regard this verse: “If you do not know, the fairest among women, go you out in the footsteps of the sheep and herd your kids [gediyotayikh]” (Song of Songs 1:8). Do not read gediyotayikh, but rather, your corpses [geviyotayikh].

Our Rabbis taught: "There are three sorts of dropsy: thick swelling of flesh, resulting from sin; round and smooth [filled with water] due to hunger; and swelling [with a feeble appearance of the body] due to sorcery." Samuel the junior suffered [with dropsy]; he said: "Sovereign of the universe! Who can determine its cause? [And I may be judged wrongly]." Whereupon he became well. Abaye was afflicted with it, so Raba said to him: "I know perfectly well that Nachmeini does not eat sufficiently [and hunger is its cause]." Raba himself [also] suffered with it. Has not Raba said: "More numerous are those killed by the pot (by delay of discharge) than are those killed by starvation." [Hence it shows that with Raba it was caused by neither hunger nor the pot for he surely must have taken warning against it.] It is different with Raba because he was compelled to delay easing himself when he was lecturing and was not able to leave. Our Rabbis taught: "There are four signs [which disclose secrets]: Dropsy is a sign of sin; Jaundice is a sign of gratuitous hatred; Poverty is a sign of pride, and Croup is a sign of slander." Our Rabbis taught: "Croup comes upon the world as punishment (Ib. b.) for the sin of not giving tithes." R. Elazar the son of R. Jose says: "It comes as punishment for slander." Raba, and according to others, R. Joshua b. Levi, said: "What is the Biblical passage [that proves this]? But the king shall rejoice in God: everyone that sweareth by Him, shall be stopped (Ps. 63, 12). The following question was asked by the scholars: "Does R. Elazar the son of R. Jose intend to say Only for slander? [differing with his contemporary on the whole subject] or does he merely add slander to the previous one?" Come and listen to the following: When our Rabbi entered the academy of Jabnai, they found R. Juda, R. Elazar the son of R. Jose and R. Simon there. The following question was asked in their presence: "Why does this sickness (croup) begin with the bowels and end with the mouth?" Whereupon R. Juda the son of Elaye the chief speaker in every instance, answered and said: "Although the kidneys are the seat of deliberation and the heart understands and the tongue forms the sentence, nevertheless the mouth finishes (makes it irrevocable)." R. Elazar, the son of R. Jose answered, and said: "Because they eat unclean things [committed by the mouth]." How can we imagine that croup is the punishment for eating unclean things? We must therefore say: "Because they eat unprepared things [not having given the tithes thereof]." R. Simon answered and said: "For the sin of neglecting the study of the Torah." The Rabbis then said to him: "Women [who die of croup] prove the contrary." "Because," said R. Simon, "they cause their husbands [to neglect the Torah]." "Gentiles who die from it disprove your opinion." "Because they cause Israel [to neglect the study of the Torah]." "Infants who die of croup will prove the contrary." "Infants die of it because they interrupt their fathers [while studying the Torah]." They finally asked him: "Children attending school [and having no time to interrupt their fathers] who died of croup will prove the contrary to your opinion." "Such cases," replied R. Simon, "are as R. Gurion said; for R. Gurion, and according to others, R. Joseph b. Shemaye, said: 'As long as there are righteous people in a generation, they are seized for [the sin of] their generation; but if there are no righteous people then the children are seized for [the sin of] their generation.'" R. Isaac b. Zeira, and according to others, R. Simon b. Nezira, said: "What is the Biblical passage [that explains it]?" If thou knowest this not, O thou fairest of women, go but forth in the footsteps of the flock and feed thy kids around the shepherd's dwellings (Songs 1, 8.) And we are told that it means the kids that are pawned for the sins of the shepherds." We conclude from this that R. Elazar merely added slander. It is concluded. Why was he called the chief speaker in every place? For R. Juda, R. Jose, and R. Simon were once seated together, and Juda b. Gerim was seated near them. R. Juda opened the conversation by saying: "How beautiful are the works of this nation! (the Romans). They have established streets and markets, built bridges across the rivers and established baths." R. Jose listened to these remarks, but kept silent. R. Simon b. Jochai, however, replied, saying: "Everything they have established is for their own benefit. They have opened the markets that they may place harlots there; they have established baths for their own refreshment, and bridges [were built to enable them] to raise tolls." Juda b. Gerim thereupon went and disclosed their conversation, and it reached the ears of the government. Whereupon an edict was issued [to the effect] that R. Juda, who had praised [the works of the Romans] should be promoted; [consequently he became the chief speaker in every place]; that R. Jose who had remained silent, should he exiled to Sephoris; and that R. Simon who had censured [their works] should be executed. Thereupon R. Simon and his son hid themselves in a house of study. Every day his wife brought them bread and a cup of water, with which they maintained themselves. Then the decree became more severe [to discover the condemned]. R. Simon said to his son: "Behold! Women are easy-minded; the Romans may cause her pain and then she will disclose our hiding place." So they went away [from the academy, without telling even his wife] and hid themselves in a cave. There a miracle occurred and a carob-tree and a fountain of water were created for them. They took off their clothes and, absorbed in study, sat in the sand up to their necks the whole day. At the time of service they would put on their clothes, but after they were through with the service, they again took off their clothes so that they might not become worn out. After they had been sitting thus for twelve years in the cave, Elijah came, stopped at the door of the cave, and said: "Who will inform the son of Jochai that the King has died and his decree has been annulled?" Upon hearing this, they left the cave. When they noticed some people plowing and sowing, one of them exclaimed: "Behold, these people are neglecting eternal life and occupy themselves with the transient life!" Upon whatever they fixed their eyes, a fire came and devoured it instantly, until a Bath-Kol (heavenly voice) came forth and said to them: "What! Are ye come forth to destroy my world? Get ye back to your cave." Accordingly they returned to their cave and sat there twelve months more. They then pleaded, saying: "Even the judgment of the wicked in Gehenna lasts no longer than twelve months [and therefore it ought also to be sufficient for our crime ]." Upon which a Bath-Kol came forth and said: "Come ye forth from your cave." They finally came forth. Whatever R. Elazar struck [with his look] was healed by R. Simon [also with his look], until R. Simon said to his son: "My son, it is sufficient for the world that you and I are learning the Torah." One Friday afternoon they saw an old man hurrying along with two bunches of myrtle in his hand. "Why dost thou need these?" said they to the man. "[To enjoy the smell] in honor of the Sabbath," was his reply. "Would not one bunch," they remarked, "be enough for the purpose?" "Nay," the old man replied, "one is in honor of Zachor (remember) and one in honor of Shamor (keep)." Thereupon R. Simon remarked to his son: "Behold! How dear are the commandments to Israel." Upon hearing [that they had gone out of the cave], R. Phinias b. Yair, R. Simon's son-in-law, went out to meet him; he took him into a bath-house, washed his entire body and tried to soften his flesh [which had hardened through sitting so long in the sand]. While he was cleaning R. Simon's body, he noticed that his skin was blistered and cracked; R. Phinias began to weep, and the tears which fell upon R. Simon's wounded body caused him such severe pain that he also wept. "Woe unto me," said R. Phinias, "that I see you in such condition." "Happy art thou," said R. Simon unto him, "that thou seest me in such condition, because, hadst thou not seen me so, then would I not have been what I am." Before this incident, when R. Simon b. Jochai asked a question of R. Phinias b. Yair, the latter would reply to it in twelve different ways; but after this incident, when R. Phinias b. Yair asked any question, R. Simon b. Jochai replied to it in twenty-four different ways. R. Simon then said: "Since a miracle happened to me, I shall therefore improve something." For [thus we learn from Jacob, as] it is written (Gen. 33, 18.) And Jacob came safely, upon which Rab said, "Safe with the body, safe with his wealth and safe with his Torah"; And he encamped before the city. (Ib.) Rab said: "He invented a coin for them," and Samuel said: "He established streets for them." R. Jochanan said: "He established baths for them." "Have you anything which lacks [religious] improvement?" R. Simon inquired. "Yes," they answered, "there is a place which is considered doubtful [and] unclean, (Fol. 34a) and it causes the priests annoyance because they have to go around that place." He asked them: "Is there anyone who knows if that place ever had the status of levitical cleanliness?" An old man replied: "Here, I remember, b. Zakai plucked lupines of Terumah." Whereupon R. Simon did likewise. Wherever the ground was hard [showing that it was not dug] he declared it purified, and around the soft spots he made marks [so that priests should take heed not to cross them]. When he had finished, he heard the old man remark: "Ben Jochai purified cemeteries." "If thou wert not with us," said R. Simon, "or even hadst thou been with us but didst not agree, then thou mightst fairly say it, but now being one of us and having agreed, people will say, 'O since harlots paint one another [to look nice], how much more ought scholars [be regardful of one another's honor].'" Thereupon R. Simon fixed his eyes upon the old man and the latter died instantly. As R. Simon went out upon the street, he noticed Juda b. Gerim (the tale-bearer). "O," said he, "does this one still live and exist in the world?" R. Simon fixed his eyes upon him and Juda became instantly a heap of bones.

(Fol. 66b) Our Rabbis were taught: R. Jochanan b. Zakkai was once riding on a donkey outside of Jerusalem, and his disciples had followed him. He saw a young woman picking barley out of the dung of an Arabian's cattle. As soon as she observed him, she covered herself with her hair, stood up and said to him: "O Rabbi, assist me." He replied' "Whose daughter art thou?" Upon which the answer came, "I am the daughter of Nakdimon b. Guryon." "Why, my daughter, what became of thy father's money?" asked he. She replied: "Is there not a saying in Jerusalem: 'The salt (means of preservation) of wealth is its diminution [by charitable deeds,] and some say through benevolence." "And what of thy father-in-law's money?" he asked again. "Ah," repriel she, "one destroyed the other." "Rabbi," she continued," dost thou not remember signing my marriage contract?" "I remember," said he [turning] to his disciples. "When I signed her marriage contract, I read in it that her father gave her a dowry of one million golden denars besides that of her father-in-law's." R. Jochanan b. Zakkai then burst into tears and said: "Happy are ye, Israel. As long as ye perform the will of God, no nation or people can rule over thee; but when ye fail to perform the will of God ye are delivered into the hands of a humiliating nation and not only into the hands of a humiliating nation, but also into the hands of the beasts of the humiliating nation!" Did then Nakdimon b. Guryon not give sufficient charity? Behold we are taught in a Baraitha: It was said of Nakdimon b. Guryon that when he left his house to go to the house of study [the entire road] would be spread out with fine woolens (Fol. 67) which the poor people used to fold up behind him [for their own use.] If you wish I will interpret this that he did it only for his own honor, and if you wish I will explain that this de did not do sufficient according to his means, as people say: "According to the camel the load (the greater the man the greater the responsibility). We are taught in a Baraitha that R. Elazzar b. Zadak said: "May I so live to see the consolation, as I saw her in Akku picking barley from between the hoofs of the horses. I then applied to her the following passage (Songs 1, 8) If thou know not, O thou fairest among women, go thy way forth by the footsteps of the flock and feed thy kids, etc., i.e., do not read g'diyothayich (thy kids), but read it g'viyothayich (thy body)."

Rabbi Berekhya interpreted it regarding this verse: “May the Lord, God of the spirits of all flesh, appoint [a man over the congregation]” (Numbers 27:16). “May the Lord…appoint”—[Moses] said before Him: ‘Master of the universe, since you are ousting me from the world, inform me who are the shepherds whom You are installing over Your children.’ Where is the matter articulated? “Tell me, he whom my soul loves,” the nation that my soul loves, the nation to whom I dedicated my life; “where do you herd,” during the period of the monarchy; “where do you rest your flock at noon,” when [Israel is] subjudgated to [foreign] kingdoms. “Why [shalama] should I be as one bound [keoteya]?” Rabbi Azarya said: Shalama, that I will not [shelo] become as nothing [lema] in the eyes of Your companions²²⁴This is a reference to the patriarchs. regarding their flocks. There will be a desecration of Heaven in the matter if your children are in distress and the flocks of Your companions²²⁵This is a reference to the nations of the world. Their kings are referred to here as God’s companions (Etz Yosef). Alternatively, the reference is to the nations that descend from Ishmael and Esau, sons of the patriarchs Abraham and Isaac (Midrash HaMevoar). are comfortable. Rabbi Yudan bar Simon said: So the nations of the world will not say that the attribute of justice has erred [ta’at].²²⁶This is alluded to in the word keoteya. [God] knew that He sought to slaughter them in the wilderness and He slaughtered them in the wilderness, just as it says: “He slaughtered them in the wilderness” (Numbers 14:16).²²⁷This phrase appears in the passage in which Moses implores God not to destroy Israel in the aftermath of the sin of the scouts, arguing that the nations of the world would say God knew He could not defeat the Canaanite nations and therefore slaughtered Israel in the wilderness (see Numbers 14:13–19). Similarly, Moses requested that God appoint good leaders over the nation after him so as to avoid a desecration of Gdod’s name. The Rabbis say: So that your children will not see that their trouble is trouble and deviate [yatu] from following You and cleave to the flocks of Your companions,²²⁸This is a reference to the nations of the world. just as you say: “Can the seat of wickedness be Your companion?” (Psalms 94:20).²²⁹This verse demonstrates that the nations of the world can be referred to as companions of God.
At that moment the Holy One blessed be He said to Moses: ‘Moses, you say to Me: “Where do you herd, where do you rest your flock,” by your life, if you do not know, ultimately, you will know,’ as it is stated: “If you do not know, fairest among women” (Song of Songs 1:8).²³⁰The Hebrew phrase generally translated “if you do not know” can also be translated “shall you not know,” and that is how the midrash is interpreting it here.
Another matter, “if you do not know, fairest among women,” fairest among prophets, the most outstanding among the prophets. Rabbi Yosei bar Yirmeya said: Why were the prophets likened to women? To say to you: Just as a woman is not shy about demanding her household needs from her husband, so the prophets are not shy about demanding the needs of Israel from their Father in Heaven.

“If you do not know, fairest among women, go out in the footsteps of the flock, and herd your kids by the tents of the shepherds” (Song of Songs 1:8).
“Go out in the footsteps of [be’ikvei] the flock.” Rabbi Eliezer, Rabbi Akiva, and the Rabbis, Rabbi Eliezer says: From the coal-baked loaf that the Israelites took in their hands from Egypt, from which they ate for thirty-one days, as Rabbi Shila said: You know that there were sixty-two meals for the Israelites from this coal-baked loaf, [you know] what I [God] will do for them at the end, ultimately [be’akev].²³¹The midrash draws an allusion to this from the term be’ikvei in the verse, and portrays God as responding to Moses’s doubts by assuring him that just as He provided for Israel miraculously in the desert, He will provide at the end of days as well. That is what is written: “There will be abundance of grain in the land” (Psalms 72:16). Rabbi Akiva says: From the fact that I surrounded them with clouds of glory, just as you say: “The Lord was going before them by day…. The pillar of cloud by day…departed not [from before the people]” (Exodus 13:21–22), you know what I will do at the end, ultimately. That is what is written: “There will be a shelter for them for shade by day” (Isaiah 4:6). The Rabbis say: From what I gave them to eat in the wilderness, that was sweeter than milk and honey, you know what I will do for them at the end, ultimately, as it is stated: “It will be on that day, that the mountains will drip nectar” (Joel 4:18).
Another matter, “go out in the footsteps of the flock,” [God] said to him [Moses]: ‘Ultimately, the entire flock will depart and you will depart last.’ It is not that Moses was indolent, but rather, the Israelites were engaged in plunder and Moses was engaged in the mitzva of Joseph, just as you say: “Moses took Joseph’s bones with him” (Exodus 13:19).
Another matter, “go out in the footsteps of the flock,” He said to him: ‘Ultimately, this entire generation will die, and you will be like them.’ What was the cause of this matter? Rabbi Shmuel bar Naḥman said: It was due [to his conduct] at the bush, as Rabbi Shmuel bar Naḥman said: All the seven days of the bush, the Holy One blessed be He was enticing Moses to go on His mission to Egypt, as it is stated: “Moses said to the Lord: I am not a man of words, not yesterday, not the day before, and not since You spoke to Your servant” (Exodus 4:10). These are six days, and the day on which he was standing, that is seven.²³²The Midrash elsewhere (Shemot Rabba 3:14) explains that the words of this verse imply that the dialogue extended for seven days, and expounds the verse as follows: “I am not a man of words,” one; “yesterday,” two; “neither [gam],” three; “the day before,” four; “nor [gam],” five; “since,” six; “You spoke,” seven. Ultimately, [Moses] said to the Holy One blessed be He: “Send by means of whomever You will send” (Exodus 4:13). The Holy One blessed be He said to him: ‘By your life, I will bind this for you in the corner of your garment.’²³³I will remember this and will ultimately punish you for it.
When did the Holy One blessed be He pay him back him? Rabbi Berekhya, Rabbi Ḥelbo, and Rabbi Levi, one said: For all seven days of the inauguration [of the Tabernacle], Moses served in the High Priesthood. He believed that it was his. Ultimately, it was said to him: ‘It is not yours, it is your brother Aaron’s.’ That is what is written: “It was on the eighth day, Moses called Aaron” (Leviticus 9:1).
Rabbi Ḥelbo said: All seven days of Adar, Moses was appeasing and entreating before the Holy One blessed be He that he might enter the land. Ultimately, He said to him: “For you will not cross this Jordan” (Deuteronomy 3:27). “Herd your kids,” the kids are entering, the goats are not entering. “By the tents of the shepherds,” the Holy One blessed be He said to him: ‘I will tell you until when you will stand over My people and herd them.’ “By the tents of [mishkenot] the shepherds [ro’im]”—on the thorns,²³⁴This is a reference to Siḥon and Og. that is on the land of the wicked [ra’im] and hard men who had been in it, Siḥon and Og.²³⁵Moses led the Israelites until they had conquered the lands of Siḥon and Og, but he did not take them any further.

...“…directed toward Your habitation, which You made, O Lord…” (Exodus 15:17) This is one of the places which indicate that the throne above is aligned with the throne below, as it says “So says the Lord, The heavens are My throne, and the earth is My footstool…” (Isaiah 66:1) And it says “And He said to me, Son of man, this is the place of My throne and the place of the soles of My feet…” (Ezekiel 43:7) and “The Lord is in His Holy Temple. The Lord-His throne is in Heaven…” (Tehillim 11:4) and “I have surely built You a house to dwell in…” (Kings 8:13) The Holy Temple is beloved before He Who Spoke and Brought the World Into Being. All of the world was created only with the speech of the Holy One, as it says “By the word of the Lord, the heavens were made…” (Tehillim 33:6) but when He built the Holy Temple it was, so to speak, through His action ‘which You made, O Lord.’ Oy to the nations of the world, whose ears heard that the Holy Temple is called an action in relation to the One Who Spoke and Brought the World Into Being and destroyed it. The one who said “…Raze it, raze it, down to its foundation!” (Tehillim 137:7) What does He say? “And you prophesy to them all these words, and you shall say to them: The Lord shall roar from above, and from His Holy Habitation He shall give forth His voice; He shall roar over His habitation… A stirring has come until the end of the earth, for God has a controversy with the nations…” (Jeremiah 25:30-31)

(Exodus 15:18) "You will bring them and You will plant them": The fathers prophesied without knowing what (they were prophesying). It is not written "You will bring us and You will plant us," but "You will bring them and You will plant them." The children will enter, but not the fathers (including Moses.) And thus is it written (Song of Songs 1:8) "If you do not know (where to graze), you fairest among the women, (Israel,) go out in the footsteps of the sheep, and graze your kids" — the kids will enter (the land), but not the goats.

R. Nathan says: Moses was saddened that one of his sons did not stand (in his place) — whereupon the L-rd said to him: Are the sons of your brother Aaron not like your sons? He, too, that I appoint over Israel will go and stand at Elazar's door (to learn from him). To what may this be compared? A king had a son fit for royalty and he took the (governance of the) kingdom from him and gave it to his lover, telling him: Though I gave you greatness, go and stand at my son's door. Likewise, the Holy One Blessed be He said to Joshua: Go and stand at the door of the sons of Elazar, viz. (Bamidbar 27:21) "And before Elazar the Cohein shall he (Joshua) stand." At that time the strength of Moses increased and he strengthened Joshua before the eyes of all of Israel, as it is written (Devarim 31:7) "And Moses called to Joshua and he said to him before the eyes of all of Israel: 'Be strong and firm!'" Behold, the people that I am giving you are still kids, still infants. Do not be censorious of what they do, for neither was their Master, viz. (Hoshea 11:1) "For Israel was a youth and I loved him," and (Song of Songs 1:8) "And graze your kids by the dwellings of the shepherds" — Take them into the shepherds' tents. Variantly: (Ibid.) "beikvei hatzon" — They were trodden down by the heel (ekev). "And graze your kids".